
Yesterday while cleaning out a closet, I came across some dried roses hanging from a rod. They were the last roses Bob had given me before he passed away. I took them out and put them on a table. I continued cleaning out the closet to gather items to either donate or throw away. There was a manilla envelope sitting on one of the shelves. I opened it and found some vintage valentine cards that Bob and I had purchased through the years at antique shops. I placed 2 of them next to the roses.
Later in the day, I went into a filing cabinet to look through some papers that I could possibly start shredding. Behind a stack of papers I found the letters Bob had written to me while he was in the military and overseas. I took them out and placed them near the roses and valentine cards.
My last Valentine’s day with Bob was February, 2022. We didn’t do anything special. We just talked and reminisced about our life together and I made us a special meal.
Today, on Valentine’s Day, I’m doing the same thing…reminiscing, remembering, being thankful for the years that I had with Bob and showing love to those that I still have in my life.
Over the past week, I’ve made plans to get some painting done in my home, I’m tackling projects that Bob and I talked about doing together and I sense his smile and can hear his words in my heart too, “I’m proud of you, Nancy. You can do this!”
My son, Michael, brought me a bouquet of flowers today for Valentine’s Day.

A few days ago two of my friends brought over a beautiful Valentine’s Day card and some homemade cookies.

Love came to me this Valentine’s Day. It showed up in unexpected and different ways and through different people.
I still feel Bob’s love. I feel the love of family and friends. I feel God’s love.
I am blessed.
thank you for sharing your precious reminders and your day with us. May the love of our Father comfort and encourage you each day sister 🙏
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Thank you, Alan. I appreciate your encouraging words.
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What a beautiful way to honor Bob and your life together. I love this so much and I love you, my dear friend❤️❤️
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Thank you so much. Bonnie. Sending lots of love to you too. ❤️
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What wonderful surprises all around for your Valentine’s Day! I’ve one more for you that I’m reluctant to share but promised I would. Last night, as I lay in bed unable to sleep, I remembered your frosted heart and realized then that it was your husband letting you know that he is close to you and loves you dearly ❤
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Another beautiful Valentine’s Day gift. That touches me deeply. Thank you for sharing it, Rosaliene. ❤️
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Oh how beautiful Nancy! Happy Valentine’s day!
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Thank you Beth. Happy Valentine’s Day to you too!
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What a beautiful post about your very special love and all the love you still receive.
Blessings dear friend. Happy Valentines Day. 💖
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Cheryl, good to hear from you. Blessings to you too! 💕
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Tears in my eyes reading this, and Rosaliene’s comment as well. True love truly is eternal.
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Thank you, Caitlynne. Yesterday and actually this month so far has been quite memorable.
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I love this post, Nancy! Simple and sweet. You are blessed, and I’m so glad that love came your way for valentine’s day! ❤️
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Thank you for reading and for your comment, Sheila. It was a special day🩷
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This is such a wonderful post! I’m glad you have such loving friends and family.
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Thank you, Dawn. Good to hear from you.
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Such a beautiful post, so full of love in every line. Love is an eternal flame and it does live on forever and ever. It can never be taken from us because it lives within our very hearts. Wish you blessings in all your endeavors…
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Thank you, Linda. You blessed me with your description of love 💕
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Only one word for this sharing: PRECIOUS!❤️
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Thank you, Andy ❤️
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I know how hard it is on these holidays without your love, but you are processing your grief in a healthy way as you share your emotions here with us. He would be proud of you.
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I know you truly understand, Mary. Thank you for your lovely comment.
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What beautiful openness to celebrate all the ways love shows up, Nancy! Thank you for sharing your blessings! ❤
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Thank you, Wynne. It’s pleasure to hear from you 🩷
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Beautiful reminder that “Love never fails.” 1 Cor.13:8a Thanks for sharing this! Love you dear sister! 💛
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Sending much love to you too, sis. 💕
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Beautiful! His love comes in all shapes and sizes – and forms.
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Thank you and I love how you stated that His love comes in all shapes and sizes. So true!
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Your words made my heart hurt. For your loss and your gain. Pain and joy all rolled into one. Blessings to you, Nancy. I’m sure Bob is proud of you. You can do this.
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Thank you so much, Gail. I appreciate your comment!
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Valentines Day is a good time to remember Bob’s love! I’m so glad your day went well….Love is eternal indeed.
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Thank you for taking the time to read this post and for your lovely comment, Ann.
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What a beautiful post about your very special love and all the love you still receive.
Blessings dear friend. Happy Valentines Day. 💖
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Thank you Cheryl. Enjoy Paris! ❤️
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This is, quite possibly, one of the most beautiful Valentine’s posts I’ve ever read!
May Love continue to keep showing up for you, in small AND big ways ❤
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Aww, thank you, Meg. That means a lot to me. This grief journey hasn’t been easy but LOVE is carrying me through.
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